Dear Abby

Abigail Van Buren’s daily relationship advice column.

I can’t call her out or she’ll paint me as the “bad guy.” I care for her father deeply and don’t want to risk what we have.
Between their text messages and secret cocktail get-togethers, I no longer trust him.
She goes out of her way to upset Mom and cause trouble at her assisted living facility. What can we do?
He won’t tell me where he goes at night and won’t answer calls or texts. Could it be a drug problem?
I want to offer support to my brother after overhearing an argument with his wife — but how to do it?
I thought my life was over, but now I’m taking care of myself and feeling things I haven’t in ages.
Moving back in with my parents was supposed to be temporary, but now they’re forbidding me to move out.
He’s withdrawn and now has a quick temper. How can I convince him to seek help?
I finally met the man of my dreams — but he’s, ahem, not getting the job done.
My husband and I have been married 12 year — and his parents still address my mail to “Mrs. Bob Jones.”
T-shirt featuring college draws skepticism from a passerby
Fed up with friend’s rants about the health care system
What to say to the co-worker who’s always bashing teachers
Wondering what, if anything, to say after seeing an alcoholic take a drink